The most important thing to remember is that personal lubrication is a must. It’s something that I emphasize in nearly every dildo masturbation article because it can make orgasms more intense and satisfying than anything else!
Also, choose a non-porous material for your dildo. Porous materials can harbor bacteria that lead to irritation or anal pain.
Choosing the right dildo
Few things are more disappointing than spending money on a new sex toy, only to find that it is either too small to please you or too big and uncomfortable to use comfortably. This is especially common when shopping for dildos online, since many people don’t have the opportunity to examine the toys in person before purchasing them. But if you know what to look for, you can avoid this frustration.
First, choose a material that is safe and stable. You want a toy that will not break down or leach chemicals into your body. This includes latex, polysulfide rubbers, urethane rubbers, and epoxy resins. Silicone is the gold standard for sex toys due to its strength, stability, and safety.
Next, consider what type of pleasure you are seeking. You may be interested in anal masturbation, which involves using a dildo to stroke your anal canal. This is considered a low-risk activity, but there are some precautions you should take to ensure your safety. Make sure to use plenty of lube and clean the dildo thoroughly after every use.
Now it’s time to bulk up the shaft in layers. Begin by creating a core one layer thinner than the final diameter you are going for. For example, if you are planning on a dildo with a 1’’ diameter, start by rolling out small sausages that are long enough to reach all the way around the core. Then, place the smaller sausages in alternating patterns and roll them gently but thoroughly onto the core. Continue this process until you reach the desired diameter.
Preparing your body
Many women are afraid to use a dildo for fear of pain or discomfort. However, this doesn’t have to be the case. There are a few simple things you can do to make your first experience with your new sex toy as comfortable as possible. First, you should start by lubricating your body. This will help prevent friction between your clitoris and the dildo. It will also help ensure that you have a smooth insertion and prevent friction between your anus and the dildo.
You can use a personal lubricant like Intimate Earth, Sensuva or Toy Life. It is also a good idea to take your time and do some foreplay before you insert the dildo. This can be as simple as stroking your clitoris or rubbing your nipples. The more relaxed and aroused you are, the easier it will be to insert your dildo and enjoy it.
You can also play with the temperature of your dildo by warming it up before inserting it. This can add an extra element of pleasure and will allow you to feel how the dildo moves inside your body as you rock it or push it. It can be a great way to explore your pleasure preferences, and it can help you decide which type of dildo is best for you.
Inserting the dildo
If you are using a dildo for masturbation, make sure to use the right personal lubricant. This will make insertion smooth and comfortable. Thoroughly lubricating the head and rim of the vaginal opening also helps. Apply the lubricant with your finger and spread it evenly around the shaft.
Once you have inserted the toy, move it in and out with gentle movements to get accustomed to its sensations. Then, increase the intensity as your arousal increases. You can also try moving the dildo in a circular motion to massage your body’s interior and stimulate your clitoris. Most women require clitoral stimulation in addition to vaginal penetration to reach a satisfied orgasm with a dildo.
Experiment with different ways to use the dildo, and you’ll find a method that feels best for you. You may find that deep penetration provides the best orgasms, or you might like stroking the dildo with your hands. Whatever method you choose, it’s important to clean your dildo after each use. Failure to do so can lead to a bacterial infection and throw off the toy’s pH balance. Be sure to use a safe toy cleaner, such as Intimate Earth or Sensuva. These products are body-safe and are formulated for use in the vaginal canal. They are also safe to use with a condom, which many people find more comfortable when using a dildo for sexual pleasure.
It may take time for you to get comfortable with the insertion of a dildo, whether you’re a man or woman. However, there are several things you can do to help yourself relax and enjoy the process of penetration.
First, make sure that you and your partner are both turned on and ready for a good time. If you’re using a dildo with someone else, you should use lube to reduce friction and prevent irritation.
Next, get familiar with your dildo by exploring all its ridges and creases. This will help you feel how it feels against your clit and G-spot. You can also try rocking your dildo back and forth to feel how it moves and if it’s comfortable for you.
If you’re planning to insert the dildo anal, you should put some lube on your hymen and use it to warm up the area. This will make it easier to insert your dildo and will give you more pleasure.
Once you’ve gotten familiar with your dildo, it’s time to start putting it in. Start with a little bit of the tip, and then gradually push more of it in. Remember to take your time and to breathe. This will help you avoid cramping and will allow your body to adjust to the sensations of the dildo.