Some people would recoil at the thought of someone hurting their penises and testicles but others find a specific pleasure in it. Cock and ball torture is a popular form of BDSM play.
It involves pain or constriction to the male genitals, says Goddess Aviva, a lifestyle and professional dominatrix. It can include a variety of techniques like spanking, flogging and urethral play.
Cock and Ball Torture
Cock and ball torture is a kink in BDSM that involves torturing or putting pain on the penis and testicles. This can include things like squeezing, flogging, binding, whipping, piercing, wax play, and electrostimulation of the male genitalia.
The cock and balls are packed with nerve endings that make them extremely sensitive to touch. This is a major reason why a lot of masochists find this sort of pain quite enjoyable. The scrotum is also packed with blood vessels that make it extra arousing.
Torture of the cock and balls is a popular kink in BDSM that involves pain or restraint being placed on the penis and testicles. It can include things like tying up the penis and squeezing or crushing the testicles. It can also involve slapping or flogging the area with hands, nails, or a toy such as a crop.
BDSM can be dangerous and it is important to have open communication with your sexual partners when it comes to any practices like this. It is also important to seek medical attention if you experience any injuries during this kind of activity. However, it is possible to perform light cock and ball torture with safety in mind as long as you follow proper precautions and maintain good communication with your dominant or submissive partner.
Chastity
Male Chastity is a growing kink within the community that has many benefits for both parties. For the Dom/me or keyholder, it’s a way to play with and control the Sub while for the Sub it’s an exciting adventure to go through and enjoy.
Most chastity devices consist of a belt that runs above the Sub’s hips with a cage that covers their genitals. The cage is usually made of a sturdy material like steel or leather and the belt is held above the hips and is secured with a padlock. This prevents the Sub from having sex and masturbating. This creates the desired sexual frustration and is a lot of fun for both the Dom/me and the Sub.
Chastity can also be used as a punishment or as a reward. For example, the Sub may be given a chastity device for punishment and the Dom/me will set rules like they can’t have sex or masturbate. Once the punishment is over, the Dom/me can take the chastity device off and let them experience the pleasure of sex and orgasms for the first time in months or sometimes even longer.
For some men, chastity can help them to learn more about their partner. They can become more aware of what their partners want in sex and be more prepared once the restrictions are lifted. Chastity can also be a very exciting kink for many men who like to feel the limitations and challenges that come with it.
Electrostimulation
Erotic electrostimulation is a special type of sensation play in which electrical impulses are used for sexual pleasure. It is also known as estim, e-stim, electric stimulation, and electrical nerve stimulation. This kind of play involves electrodes being placed on genital areas to create a circuit of electricity that can produce both pain and pleasure. It can be extremely satisfying to some people and a big part of what makes BDSM so fascinating.
The term e-stim describes two kinds of electric stimulation that can be used for kinky sex play: TENS (transcutaneous electrical nerve stimulation) and shock (used mostly with violet wands or prods). Both have their own safety considerations.
To successfully use estim, the top partner should never touch both poles of a channel when it is on unless protected with insulating gear. Otherwise, current may arc and burn the top or run through the heart. This is very dangerous and can lead to serious injury. It is also important that the top removes pressure from the submissive’s genital area regularly. If this is not done, a pinched genital can become very painful very quickly.
The intensity of e-stim can range from a light tingling feeling to throbbing muscle contractions. The amount of power that is required to feel this can vary depending on the day, the electrode and the power box used, the body area where it is applied, the program selected and so on.
